Problems With Sleeping

Problems With Sleeping

Assisting a person who has difficulties sleeping can be a challenge. Watch the video below to see examples of how to manage this situation. 

Below the video you will find lists of potential root causes or reasons that a person may be behaving this way. 

Root Causes

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Physiological Causes and Possible Solutions

Have them checked out by a medical professional who understands dementia. People with dementia often have underlying medical problems which they are unable to describe.  Having their doctor prescribe a sleeping medication does not address the issue if there is another underlying physical problems.

 

If they have been prescribed a medication for pain, make sure they are taking as directed. Aspirin or other over the counter pain medications can also be helpful if given prior to bedtime and should be discussed with their physician.

Discuss with your doctor about restless legs. They may need to adjust medications or prescribe a new medication for this.

Depression is common with seniors and often found in individuals who sleep too much or do not sleep enough. Discuss with your physician about having them assess the possibility of depression.

Medications of have side affects, which include sleep disturbances. Ask your doctor to examine the meds currently being taken, such as diuretics. Remember that some medications affect people with dementia differently than they do people not suffering from the disease.o wander and take all necessary precautions. See “Tips” below.

Sundowning may be caused by the person being tired. Take measures to try and have them sleep well at night and have them take a nap shortly after lunch. Other coping strategies include:

  1. Playing music they enjoy to calm or distract them.
  2. Give them meaningful activities to do during the day.
  3. Give them something to hold and fiddle with.
  4. Try dancing or going for a walk.
  5. Play an old movie or TV show they enjoy.
  6. Close the blinds to shut out the darkness.
  7. Keep room well lit. Consider light bulbs which simulate real daylight.
  8. Try to minimize things which over-stimulate and limit the number of visitors during the time of day they get agitated.

As people age, they often require less sleep. If the person is spending a lot of time in bed, try having them stay up a little later or waking a little earlier and getting out of bed.

Try to limit or prevent daytime napping to see if that makes a difference. If the person becomes extremely fatigued, agitated or begins to sundown, experiment with the length of naps and see how it affects their problematic behaviors. A short nap after lunch but not too late in the day is often preferred.

Adults can become agitated or begin to sundown when they are too tired. Similar to children, they become cranky when fatigued or tired. Focus on making sure they are well rested by having them to nap just after lunch  and addressing nighttime sleep problems. Those who do a lot of wandering and walking may also be suffering from being too tired (see wandering section).

Many people require activity in order to stay calm and sleep well at night. Try taking at least one or two brisk walks daily. Dancing, outside chores and other physical activities should also be incorporated into the daily routine if possible.

While some people find alcohol relaxing, it can disrupt sleep patterns and also may cause reactions to medications.  Caffeine consumption (such as coffee, tea, soft drinks, chocolate, energy drinks) should be limited or avoided and if consumed, done early in the day.

Going to bed hungry can make it difficult to sleep well. Remember that they may not be able to realize they are hungry or communicate it. Try a small snack, warm milk or herbal tea prior to bedtime.

Many people find sleeping on the sofa or on a recliner to be more comfortable. If they prefer this and it is safe, then allowing them to sleep in areas other than their bed can be beneficial.

Environmental Causes And Possible Solutions

You may need to play with temperatures in the sleeping area. The affected person may not be able to communicate if they are too hot or too cold, so take notes on the room temperature and the quality of sleep. Their internal thermostat may have changed due to the dementia, so what used to be a comfortable temperature for sleeping may no longer be the same.

Poor lighting, glares and shadows may cause confusion, disorientation and hallucinations. Make sure there is adequate lighting throughout the house, especially when it is dark outside.  In addition, night lights while sleeping can cut down on confusion if they wake at night.

  1. Make sure the path to the bathroom is well lit at night.
  2. Practice the route during the day time to make sure they are familiar.
  3. If getting to the bathroom continues to be a problem, consider a bedside commode or hand held urinal kept right next to the bed.
  4. Limit fluid intake in the evening and make sure the person uses the bathroom prior to going to bed.

e wanderer as well as reducing noise levels to see if that helps.

Hospital stays can wreak havoc on a person’s sleeping pattern. Try to make as few changes as possible to the environment they are used to and get back to the person’s normal sleeping routine right away. If necessary, speak to their physician to prescribe some medication to help return to a normal sleep cycle.

Try gently reminding them that it is dark outside and time to sleep. Try placing a large digital clock next to the bed so they can see what time it is. Do not argue or yell as this may make the situation worse.

Communication & Understanding Related Causes and Possible Solutions

  1. Avoid situations which cause agitation late in the day. 
  2. Be careful not to argue or perform activities which you know they find troubling. If bathing or other activities cause agitation, do them early in the day giving the person adequate time to calm down. 
  3. Focus on enjoyable, calming activities and situations such as giving a massage and playing soft music. Soft music can also be played throughout the night if that helps the person remain calm.

Try to avoid discussing upcoming events. Sometimes the anticipation of an event can make them feel stressed or excited. You may find telling them about appointments and other events just prior to them taking place will help the person remain calm. You may also want to avoid laying out their clothing until they need to get dressed.

Additional Tips

  • If the person is living with their spouse or other family members, remember that it is vitally important that the caregiver remain fresh and well rested. Take time for your self to nap during the day if awakened at night. Be aware of how sleep deprivation may be affecting you. Be conscious of yourself becoming short tempered or abusive (verbally or physically) with the affected person. Sleep deprivation puts you at higher risk for illness and accidents, so make sure you take adequate measures to avoid this. 
  • Consider hiring an overnight caregiver to watch the person with dementia so that you can get adequate sleep.
  • Sleep problems and sundowning are sometimes a stage that a person with dementia goes through and may pass as the disease progresses. 
  • Make sure the bed and bedroom are comfortable for the person and that they have items they are familiar with, such as their pajamas, pillow or blanket.
  • Focus on bedtime rituals from their past and be as consistent as possible. Going to bed and waking the same time every day helps establish a good bedtime routine.
  • If sleep is an ongoing problem, take precautions to make the house as safe as possible and allow the person to wander. (see wander section)
    • Make sure doors are locked with special locks and door alarm.
    • Gate off areas person should not go to such as stairs and kitchen.
    • Lock up dangerous items such as poisons, medications, cleaning items and sharp objects.
  • Speak to your doctor about medications to help with sleep. Ideally, this should only be done to get an occasional break or used short term to help establish a sleeping routine and after trying to find the root cause of the problem.
  • Be aware that sleep medications may cause symptoms of confusion and hallucinations to be worse and should be closely monitored by their physician. 
  • Caregivers may want to learn relaxation techniques to help them learn how to fall back to sleep easily after being woken by the person with dementia.

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