I can’t do this anymore!

Lately, my mom becomes agitated. I try to go down the list… Is she hungry, tired, in pain, etc. I give her a shake, she throws it. I try to invite her to settle in her recliner, she throws the blankets off. I attempted to check a wound on her ankle and she kicked me. !

I try to ask her what is the matter and she is just yells things, “No!” “Hurry Up!” I don’t know what to do anymore! I love my mother but this is becoming too much for me to handle. I want to keep her at home but I feel so helpless